When I try to DM someone on the jlai.lu lemmy instance, I get “403 Forbidden”.
This is over Tor but doubt that’s relevant since jlai.lu permits tor, and most likely my msg takes this route:
my PC → Fedia server → jlai.lu (server)
That instance also seems to be federated with Fedia (users from there post on fedia mags). So for that reason I expect DMs to work.
Last time I checked, kbin/mbin only supports intra-instance messaging. I.e., you ( [email protected] ) can message [email protected] , but not [email protected] or [email protected]