• dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    I mean, if you were around I’d definitely have some fun with you, man. You got what you got, and I’d say it’s plenty for both receiving and giving pleasure. btw most of the nerves in the vagina/vulva are right near the opening. Women don’t even feel that much deeper inside! Most men also have their prostate pretty close to their hole, too, like 1-2 inches :-)

    I’m really glad to hear you’re stepping into a new chapter and going outside of your comfort zone. I think you’re on a good path with these changes. I personally enjoy sex only when I feel connected to my partner, and I’m not sure I could feel that way with an escort who is being paid for their time.

    It is going to be hard, especially if you’re only going after women (trust me lol), but even if you get laid less, those good feelings will last so much longer and be so much more intense. It will be awkward, funny, silly, sexy, and intimate all together. I’m rooting for you, and yes I think the whole lemmynsfw crowd is on your side!

    If you ever want someone to chat with, msg me any time :-)

    ETA: and yeah regarding size the other folks are right. I can leave bottoms sore for days. Which means it’s hard to have sex with the same person regularly! I’m not even that monstrously large or anything!

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      1 year ago

      I personally enjoy sex only when I feel connected to my partner, and I’m not sure I could feel that way with an escort who is being paid for their time.

      Yeah, and this was a big part of it. I remember reading/watching someone describing sleeping with escorts/prostitutes as drinking saltwater in that you think you feel refreshed, but are constantly thirsty. I think that’s a great analogy, except for the fact that my sexual needs were and are met tbh. It’s just my emotional/relationship needs aren’t being met, and no escort could deliver that tbh.

      If you ever want someone to chat with, msg me any time :-)

      Thanks dude, you’ve been really nice and helpful since I’ve met you. Who knows, I may end up just reaching out just to say hi :)