cishet cracker here so I’ve never had to go through anything like coming out but I definitely think it’s a good sign that she ended with “I love you.” She’s shocked definitely but I would just try to be calm and see how it goes when you talk more, ya know? People don’t usually say they love people they’re angry with.
It also ignores the infinite ways in which “liberal democracy” engages in authoritarian action on behalf of property owners and the bourgeoisie