Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?
And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!
Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊
Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.
Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it’s only good if the guy likes it, and isn’t too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:
Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.
ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.
Thanks for sharing! Is the primary difference the vulva stimulation? Is the feeling of being filled up/stretched similar (assuming best case scenario where they went slow on the ass to give it time to loosen and used plenty of lube)?
Yeah it’s interesting, I’m not particularly interested in doing anal penetration, besides maybe putting in a butt plug for my partner, but adding some anal play for me really amplifies the experience, even just putting in a prostate stimulator. Pussy is just so nice, I love feeling my partner get wet, or if I’m fingering her during foreplay and can feel her vagina tent as she gets more aroused that’s super hot (although not super common, usually it already has by the time I’m fingering lol), and it’s just clean and made for penis and ready to go without all the extra steps and time ass play needs 😆
Lately I’ve been experimenting with masturbating with a dildo, and it takes a while to relax and loosen enough to get it in, but when I do it feels really good being able to slide up and down it, and I really like having my hand in a static spot so that every thrust into my hand slides up the dildo, and then lowering my hips slides me out of my hand but pushes it in deeper or against my prostate. I definitely want to explore it more, maybe find a guy and girl (or a girl who likes pegging) to do a threesome where I’m in between them 🤔
sorry for the wall of text 😅🤷
Not primarily, I can (since the last baby rearranged things) get off from PIV in doggy or any position really. But that tight missionary, wow it’s just intense, especially if the guy is angled upward.
If you are trying to figure out whether you are missing out not having a pussy, I don’t know - I do think female sexual response is stronger but not sure it’s the equipment (one of my kids is trans and the doctor says if they take testosterone enough to look more male, it will inhibit the sexual response they have with female chemistry, even though as far as I know it’s the wee bit of testosterone in that chemistry that is making it possible for women to get off so hard) and honestly the feeling you want being sandwiched, that likely will be intense as heck.
Yeah, I think I’m not so much trying to figure out if I’m missing out not having a pussy, moreso I know there are certain sensations that will just not be possible for be so I’m trying to get a clearer idea what the difference between what I can experience and what I can’t is, if that makes sense. And not just the difference in orgasm, either, but everything leading up to it.
Interesting, the main things I’ve heard (which is not much, to be fair) is that getting on testosterone makes trans folks more horny, like going through a second puberty. Maybe that’s just temporary?
not a doctor, but my experience as a trans guy has led me to believe that getting off isn’t really a function of hormones so much as it is nerves. hormones help arrange some things (e.g. vaginal lubrication) that can make getting off easier / more enjoyable, but with enough patience, time, and comfort, you can more or less get off with the same intensity post-transition as one did pre-transition
although transmasc hrt does open up some new ways to get off that your kid will probably enjoy a lot lol