How much time have you spent being single?
If you’re currently single: is it by choice or circumstance?
Do you / did you enjoy single life?
What are / were the pros and cons?
Is / was partnership a goal of yours?
If you’re currently not single: Did your goals change after getting into a relationship?
What are the pros and cons?
Don’t join the military if you weren’t already considering it before the breakup.
I was considering it before we dated, but with my financial problems and job troubles this break up brought it to my mind again
Just recognize that you’re in a difficult situation right now, and don’t let the short-term impact your long-term.