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My philosphy with dating comes down to the equal exchange thing; Im a feminimist, im a ML… So my expectations may be different from the society I live in.
How that manifests?
I have full trust in my partner, I will never tell them what to wear, how to look, who they can be with, when to come home; If I had serious doubts about any of this I wouldnt just tell them what to do, i’d let them know how it made me feel, and seperate if it comes down to a incompitablity.
I will outline boundries, i.e you do x I will do Y, but it is never presented as demands, just as expectations.
I expect the same in return, equal exchanges; all sex is fully consensual, I never pressure, shame or guilt anyone into having sex; I want them to feel the same way as me.
I view housework as labour, labour should be equally divided; I will cover if they are sick, but the expectation is we do the same amount of hours of housework roughly.
And on top of that, interest really; I want them to be as interested in them as they are me; that could be casual sex, that could be marriage; we need to feel the same way.
Can you please elaborate more?
Sure!
My philosphy with dating comes down to the equal exchange thing; Im a feminimist, im a ML… So my expectations may be different from the society I live in.
How that manifests?
I have full trust in my partner, I will never tell them what to wear, how to look, who they can be with, when to come home; If I had serious doubts about any of this I wouldnt just tell them what to do, i’d let them know how it made me feel, and seperate if it comes down to a incompitablity.
I will outline boundries, i.e you do x I will do Y, but it is never presented as demands, just as expectations.
I expect the same in return, equal exchanges; all sex is fully consensual, I never pressure, shame or guilt anyone into having sex; I want them to feel the same way as me.
I view housework as labour, labour should be equally divided; I will cover if they are sick, but the expectation is we do the same amount of hours of housework roughly.
And on top of that, interest really; I want them to be as interested in them as they are me; that could be casual sex, that could be marriage; we need to feel the same way.