As the title says, what is one thing in your sex life that you would change if you could?

  • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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    9 months ago

    Being able to cum at will. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn’t. I feel like some women get upset if you can’t cum.

    • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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      8 months ago

      It’s not upsetting as long as the guy isn’t upset and clearly had a good time.

      If a guy couldn’t ever cum, I think I’d not like it but if it’s half the time and I’m having a good time I’d not care, I don’t every time either. Probably 95% of the time for me & often twice but not every time, no. Same for husband, I’d say about 95% of the time he does but not every time.

      I can see this being an issue in a hookup, kind of assume the guy is there to get off, and if he can’t she might blame herself but it won’t matter in an actual relationship.