• AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    It happens occasionally to trans men, mostly early in transition but there’s always that one illiterate guy who doesn’t understand that you’re hairy like a wookie and he’s not actually interested in you.

    • Norah - She/They@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      11 months ago

      That does make sense. I have an enby friend who’s on T, they had a guy use the line “don’t worry, I like girls who don’t shave” on them. This is why I stopped dating cis men for the most part, they just can’t seem to be around trans people without saying something gross.

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        11 months ago

        I’ve seen similar from women in queer spaces asking for “women and enby/trans masc/trans men” as if they’re being slick

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          11 months ago

          Huh? I just say “I don’t date cis men” and that seems to work for me? But I’m a trans woman so I don’t know.

          Wait, I get it now. Forgive me, I hadn’t had any coffee yet. Or my ADHD meds haha