Ilflish@lemm.ee to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 8 months agoWho cares about red flags in people. What are your green flagsmessage-squaremessage-square253fedilinkarrow-up1264arrow-down113
arrow-up1251arrow-down1message-squareWho cares about red flags in people. What are your green flagsIlflish@lemm.ee to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 8 months agomessage-square253fedilink
minus-squarejet@hackertalks.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up85arrow-down3·8 months agoThey are happy to see you! They handle stress and disappointment well. They don’t externalize their frustrations, and take responsibility for solving their own problems. They act like a functioning adult. They have interests and hobbies that they are happy to do alone, or share. Unfair - but they don’t have intense money, drug, social pressure in their life, a stable situation is the good grounds for relationships bonus: If their parents are attractive, then they could be a good partner who ages gracefully with you
minus-squaretetris11@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up59arrow-down1·8 months agoThat bonus really looked like it was going somewhere else for a second there.
minus-squareLastYearsPumpkin@feddit.chlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up30arrow-down1·8 months agobonus: if their parents are attractive, you have a potential thruple opportunity to fall back on if the relationship sours.
minus-squareSetarkus.LW@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5·8 months ago“Then you might have a plan B if the relationship doesn’t work out as expected”
They are happy to see you!
They handle stress and disappointment well.
They don’t externalize their frustrations, and take responsibility for solving their own problems. They act like a functioning adult.
They have interests and hobbies that they are happy to do alone, or share.
Unfair - but they don’t have intense money, drug, social pressure in their life, a stable situation is the good grounds for relationships
bonus: If their parents are attractive, then they could be a good partner who ages gracefully with you
That bonus really looked like it was going somewhere else for a second there.
bonus: if their parents are attractive, you have a potential thruple opportunity to fall back on if the relationship sours.
“Then you might have a plan B if the relationship doesn’t work out as expected”