• DreadTowel@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I think the main problem is that guys don’t understand what makes an attractive guy attractive. At least I don’t.

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      1 year ago

      I don’t think that’s it; I’m gay and get nudes from other gay guys. Results are still consistent with the OP’s example. I think girls consider the whole body aesthetic more, guys are laser focused on “here is a close-up of my dick”, “here is my asshole”, “so we ready to go, or?”

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      1 year ago

      I think a better question is “what do the nudes you like look like?”

      Like, if you’re a straight male you’re never going to be turned on by your own nudes but I know for the majority of straight men they aren’t looking at just closeups of vaginas or boobs. Translate that to the male body.