Sending nudes is an artform- it can be arabesque, or grotesque. It can be of looks, or “truth”. It can be of aesthetics, or enlighten one on what “it” is. Regardless of what it is, it is a form of art- the exposé of the hidden.
Ah, so it’s not an unsolicited dickpic, but a risque avant-garde chef d’oeuvre that challenges current societal norms
Ceci ne pas une dickpic
I think the main problem is that guys don’t understand what makes an attractive guy attractive. At least I don’t.
I don’t think that’s it; I’m gay and get nudes from other gay guys. Results are still consistent with the OP’s example. I think girls consider the whole body aesthetic more, guys are laser focused on “here is a close-up of my dick”, “here is my asshole”, “so we ready to go, or?”
I think a better question is “what do the nudes you like look like?”
Like, if you’re a straight male you’re never going to be turned on by your own nudes but I know for the majority of straight men they aren’t looking at just closeups of vaginas or boobs. Translate that to the male body.
What an odd shaped rat
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