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I actually love this. So often I have a plan where I’m like “if you actually want to do this thing, then I’m here and happy to be there with you. But if you’re not really interested but just sticking to the commitment because you’re afraid my feelings will be hurt if you cancel…I promise they won’t let’s just cancel.” But if I say this to someone, they could interpret it as “I don’t want to go”, which isn’t true! If you want to go, I want to go. I just want to gauge your level of wanting-to-go.
I actually love this. So often I have a plan where I’m like “if you actually want to do this thing, then I’m here and happy to be there with you. But if you’re not really interested but just sticking to the commitment because you’re afraid my feelings will be hurt if you cancel…I promise they won’t let’s just cancel.” But if I say this to someone, they could interpret it as “I don’t want to go”, which isn’t true! If you want to go, I want to go. I just want to gauge your level of wanting-to-go.