• TheBlue22@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    Why play these games? Why waste my time? I am not 15, if you do this shit, I don’t care about you anymore and I’ll just find someone else

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      3 months ago

      Women like to be chased. It’s an ego boost for them, they like the attention.

      Women also hate indicating consent. They like consent, but they hate indicating it. Because if she never says yes she can have you arrested for sexual assault/rape/whatever. Women LOVE hurting people if they have bad feelings and that’s a great way to hurt people, they won’t give that up for ANYTHING.

      They want to be chased, so they don’t say yes because that would end the chase. They don’t want to imply consent to continue to chase, so they don’t say things like “not yet” or “you’ll have to do better than that.” That would give up their “ruin this man’s life on a whim for free” card. So they say no. Man says “okay have a nice night” and walks away forever. Woman posts video on Tiktok asking where all the good men have gone.

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        3 months ago

        There’s a clue to the problem with your analysis:

        Women like

        Women also

        They like

        They want

        They hate

        They don’t

        Do you see it? You’re referring to roughly half our entire species, 3-4 billion people, as though they are all a single unit with singular preferences. Try seeing humans as humans, it’s pretty wild your first time out.

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          I’ve been fed that line a lot. “Every single woman is a completely unique snowflake that cannot be compared to any other person, place or thing.”

          Sure. /s it is completely invalid to address tendencies in women’s collective behavior. /s. It’s not like women are massively effected by trends or peer pressure to conform to their in-group or anything. /s. This line totally isn’t an intellectually dishonest non-argument designed to shut down any discussion you don’t like without valid rebuttal. /s

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            So if I find one woman who disagrees with your claim (“women hate indicating consent”), you’ll concede your argument is faulty? Because I’ve known several.

            If you modify your argument to “Some women…” then that’s slightly more defensible , but not really meaningful because there’s all sorts of people. You could probably find someone who believes anything.

            If you want to say “most women” then you’re going to need to show your work.

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              No I don’t because only the Sith deal in absolutes. You obviously have nothing of value to say other than pedantic bitching about your own inability to grasp generalizations. Goodbye.

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                3 months ago

                Well you certainly lived up to your name.

                And storming off is certainly one way to deal with people questioning if your generalizations have any validity, but I don’t think it’s the best way.

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            3 months ago

            Oh, I see! You don’t understand yet that everyone else is an individual just like you are. Don’t worry little buddy, you’ll get there - just a few hundred million more years of evolution. I’m rooting for you!

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              3 months ago

              Condescension, attacks on my person, I still haven’t heard any actual rebuttal. Other than “You said ‘women’ plural so nothing you ever say can possibly be correct” do you have anything to say about what I’ve said?

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          Quoting the image in the original post, apparently made by a person with a woman’s picture as their avatar:

          Do you notice that men are no longer persuasive? Once they ask you out on a date and you say No. That’s it 😑

          This implies she wants men to continue persuing her after she’s said no. This is not a unique sentiment from women; I have seen many women making Tiktok videos saying basically this. “Why aren’t men approaching women anymore?” “Where have all the men gone?” “Why am I not being asked out?” “Why did he take me seriously when I said no?” Why do you think they’re like this?

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        3 months ago

        Bro is having a paranoid episode. lol. Went from “Society has changed” to some incel-level shit real fast. XD