• tacticalsugar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    And I think it’s kinda fucked up that you’re clearly bothered that this man said he was disappointed with how he was treated but you don’t care about how he was treated. You can say you’re not upset as much as you want but the fact is that you’ve literally been victim blaming him for over an hour now. You can just say you don’t like queers, you don’t need to beat around the bush.

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      3 months ago

      Mate, it really seems you are the one very bothered for the point of view of an internet stranger. Especially when all I said to cause you this is that it’s unreasonable to expect that a country like Qatar accepts they violated human rights.

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        3 months ago

        Nah you victim blamed a man who was just tortured. I said it was a fucked up opinion and you doubled down. All he said was that he was “disappointed” and you got mad about that for some reason. He’s literally not even “expecting” anything, he just said he was disapointed.

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            Could he have chosen a country to work in that wasn’t a shithole place with a liking for killing gays and fucking human rights? And is it reasonable to expect that a country like Qatar respects human rights? I’m not sure you know anything at all about the shithole of a country this guy decided to go to work.

            He never said anything about expecting Qatar to respect human rights, you’re just making things up to hate on the gay man now.

            I’m not sure you know anything at all about the shithole of a country this guy decided to go to work.

            Earlier you said that Mexico and the UK have better opportunities for gays but both of those countries have attrocious records for gay rights. You’re accusing me of “not knowing” about Qatar but you clearly don’t know what you’re talking about. The way you keep saying “shithole country” like Trump sure does make it sound like you just hate removeds and brown people.

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                3 months ago

                I mean, if you make an appeal and end up disappointed because the country doesn’t see any kind of violation to human rights… How do you call that?

                That’s called disappointment, that’s how it works

                Oh, and I never said Mexico or UK were better places for him, I said he is British-Mexican, so he probably had better places to go.

                Try talking to a queer person some time, shit is bad for us everywhere right now.

                Lastly, yeah, Qatar is a shithole country, and the only thing you need to know this is that no decent country makes being gay a crime.

                Queer people are marginalized in every country right now. You clearly aren’t actually that interested in queer politics or you would know that.

                Are you sure you’re not mad?

                Yes, I’m mad that you’re victim blaming a gay man who was tortured and keep dropping racist dogwhistles. Are you enjoing telling the removeds how stupid they are?

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                  That’s called disappointment, that’s how it works

                  If he’s disappointed it’s because he expected a different result from the appeal. Which is what I said.

                  Try talking to a queer person some time, shit is bad for us everywhere right now.

                  You’re wrongly assuming that I don’t know any queer person or their struggles. But go on…

                  Queer people are marginalized in every country right now. You clearly aren’t actually that interested in queer politics or you would know that.

                  Are you telling me that a queer person has the same struggles in say, Spain, or Netherlands, or France, that in fucking Qatar where they can be executed for the sole crime of being queer? And I should be the one who doesn’t know what I’m talking about?

                  Yes, I’m mad that you’re victim blaming a gay man who was tortured and keep dropping racist dogwhistles. Are you enjoing telling the removeds how stupid they are?

                  Again, I’m not blaming him for being gay. He did a stupid choice, he went to one of the worst countries there are to be gay right now and that was very stupid. What happened to him, while despicable, was a product of his choice. Being gay isn’t and never will be a crime, but I can’t change the laws of Qatar, so if Qatar considers being gay a crime and you are gay, maybe, don’t go there?

                  To me, it looks like you’re just trying to find someone to direct your hate to. It’s fine. After all, you’re just an internet stranger so I don’t harbor any feelings for you, but I think you are making a mistake here.