• Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    I kept to this rule, but it was so fucking annoying.

    I did bouldering to lose weight, and played card games for fun, went to death metal shows for art and worked in software.

    No women at work, no women at gigs, no women at card games, shouldn’t be picking up women at the climbing center.

    I’m married with a daughter now , but Jesus Christ it wasn’t easy getting there.

    EDIT : To clarify, the “no women at work” thing refers to adding women to my friends circle for networking to meet non-work women. OBV I wasn’t hoping to pick up women at work for the same reason as not wanting to pick them up at the climbing center.