• shneancy@lemmy.world
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    15 days ago

    “if they need to date” bruh

    then the person who “can’t take it” has the responsibility of communicating it. Simply existing and having issues next to someone else is not fucking abuse. Why are you using that word so lightly

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      15 days ago

      Because I’ve been abused by people who were like this. It escalated. I had PTSD so bad I couldn’t work a full time job.

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        15 days ago

        I’m sorry but you saying that you were abused by someone’s trust issues sounds like you expected full devotion and full trust out of your partner which does not convince me to believe you were the victim there.