• givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I mean, it’s an elderly person acting strangely and aggressively, not really remembering it, and even when confronted with video evidence claiming that’s not how they act…

    They should be straight up asking if she’s going to seek medical evaluation as she’s showing signs of dementia.

    We need to stop handling this shit with kid gloves.

    The last people to realize they’re experiencing signs of dementia, are the people experiencing signs of dementia.

    Maybe they were always horrible people and were just always holding it in. But loosing that ability to hold it in is still a sign of normal age related mental decline.

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      5 months ago

      “Who you are in the dark” is the trope name for how you act when nobody can see or know. Are you actually a good person, or are you only good when you’re being observed by people who’d judge you for being your true self. This is literally the same thing as “Santa knows if you’ve been good” and “God knows what’s in your heart.”

      These kinds of people actually need an invisible, omnipresent judge to keep them from committing atrocities. They’re the people who, in a supernatural disaster movie, are the ones who turn to human sacrifice to try and appease whatever horrible thing is rampaging around outside or the alleged god who’s doing nothing to stop it.

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          5 months ago

          Nah, you’re thinking too “Old Testament.” Nowadays you can behave as shitty as you want as long as you buy an indulgence “repent” for it.

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            5 months ago

            “I’m not perfect, I’m just forgiven”.

            Just one of the most nauseating things you will hear a xtian say. And these people will lecture others on matters of morality, claiming you need to be xtian to be moral.