mrow sso im amab and am liike,

i id as both transmasc and transfem, cuz i oscillate around androgyny, but i like being a boy (in like a trans boy way not a cis man way)

i also id HEAVILY w cats (sorry for caps ><) so like theyres that ig. i i sometimes get stuff that says i either havd to be a girl cuz im amab, or i have to be enby and use theythem, or im just a dumb cis boy chasing clout and and just uwaaa ;-;

im not very comfortable reading about alot of transfem mtf stuff esp around like body tips and idk as well as just hrt in general with both t and e mrowrr and i just cant handle it ><< i think bc of ll the times people hav told me i need to and its its bad

also cuz im a trans catboy people r like ur a furry or ur a therian , which… i i dont quite fit there eitherrrr >~<

is all this just the usual imposter syndrom plus heavy socual anxiety or or am i doing sonething wrong?

in need of advice and probably hugs aswell, max ur local friendly catboy who just wan friends ><<

thankyouuuz vermuch, sorry for the textdump ><

  • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    3·
    8 months ago

    Well, it’s finally happened. I’ve reached the age where I cannot decipher the younger generation’s slang.

  • cowboycrustation [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMEnglish
    1·
    8 months ago

    Nah, you’re not doing anything wrong. There’s no one way to do femininity or masculinity. Medically transitioning just because people say you should is a recipe for disaster.

    I will say, you’re stereotyping trans men. I get the point you’re trying to get across, but there’s a large portion of trans men whose masculinity is very similar to cis men. They’re not as visible online and in public discourse because many are stealth. Just keep that in mind.

    Regardless, you are welcome in this community. Being non-binary has no set template, and you are just as valid as anyone else. I’m sure you’ll find some friends here, and I wish you all the best.

    PS. This instance has a public matrix channel. If you don’t know, matrix is similar to discord. It might be another good option for making friends. https://matrix.to/#/#blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

  • 🏳️‍⚧️MiaCD🏳️‍⚧️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    1·
    8 months ago

    Omg Maaax :(! These people r stupid, u know who u r and if they dont like it they can go fuck right off, there’s nothing wrong with u, u dont need to do anything just cuz some dumbass says so, just ignore them and find better people that dont judge u for who u r, u’re awesome <3

    and if anyone annoys u just tell me and I’ll make sure they chill the fuck down :3