This photo has been taken by daylight, just before a Sunday brunch. In retrospect, I should have stood in the other direction because now my ass is lit better than my actual subjects on the picture. 😆

    • JustS0m3Dud3@lemmynsfw.comOPM
      2·
      11 months ago

      Well, from a photographical perspective I have used lighting sub-optimally, but as you state it does not really matter that much.

      And I concur that more representation for us 🍌 guys is a good thing.

  • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
    3·
    11 months ago

    I notice you also have a strong upward curve, I thought this wasn’t normal when I was young and it still makes some positions difficult/painful like reverse cowgirl. Do you ever get reactions about it?

    Ps it’s still a good pic imo

    • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      5·
      11 months ago

      You didn’t ask me, but as a fellow curved guy, bottoms and women seem to mostly intuit which positions will actually work. The reactions are usually delight, though one guy was concerned by the size and decided not to bottom.

      • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
        5·
        11 months ago

        Thanks for the answer. This used to make me sooo insecure when I was young because I thought it was abnormal and I wasn’t even sure if I could have normal sex. In those days porn wasn’t easily accessible and all the ones I saw were of guys with mostly straight cocks.

        But yeah it did work out in the end of course (except the reverse cowgirl and with doggy I really have to bend forward too). But it’s ok. They’re not my favourites anyway.

        PS: It’s always been my suspicion that it was caused by me sleeping on my belly while I started getting erections, and I had a really thin mattress and a hard wooden bed base (just a plank). I wonder if it got “bent” that way. Or maybe it just is?

        Anyway this is probably not the best spot for this discussion :)

        • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
          6·
          11 months ago

          ♥️ Nah it wasn’t from how you were sleeping, just natural variations. And yeah so many people want me to do them doggy but I have a difficult time with that compared to other positions. I’ll try leaning way forward next time though.

          • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
            6·
            11 months ago

            Thanks, I appreciate it, it solves a long-time mystery for me 🤗

            And yeah leaning forward works for me, but be careful, it is much more likely to slip out still and if it happens while you’re thrusting, it will hit their hipbone hard which feels really awful. So I always tend to be pretty careful (and still it happens) and it’s just not a very relaxing or exciting position that way.

            Too bad because it does feel really nice finishing that way due to all the movement 🤭

            • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
              4·
              11 months ago

              And yeah leaning forward works for me, but be careful, it is much more likely to slip out still and if it happens while you’re thrusting, it will hit their hipbone hard which feels really awful

              Thank you for this! I always thought I must be doing something wrong that causes it to slip out so easily in that position, then I get self-conscious about if I’m doing it right, and then start to go soft until we change positions. I need a patient partner who is willing to really help me practice and figure this out ;-)

              • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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                11 months ago

                Yeah I get like that too, it turns me off when it happens, especially because it hurts because the impact bends my cock and it feels awful.

                I hope you figure it out! I don’t have a fixed partner right now so I generally avoid the position unless they really want it (which does happen a lot)