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  • crownofgold6@lemmy.ca
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    2 months ago

    THIS!!! I’m sick of her acting like she did it alone when there was a father and nana K there too. I’m sure those kids get far more out of going to their dad’s house than they do Sarah’s house. I bet their dad was far more helpful to M getting into university than Sarah ever was (helping with homework, helping her decide where she’d like to go, etc).

    I bet Sarah made her feel guilty about coming home and maybe M feels she’ll be homesick but I’m sure once she gets there and has her school load, makes friends, wants to explore a new(?) city, the whole coming home every weekend won’t happen. And I’d love that for her!

    • Bitchwhiskers@lemmy.ca
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      2 months ago

      I’m not willing to give anyone credit without evidence (the dad). But even if she did do it alone (we know she didn’t bc of her parents at the very least), phrasing it the way she did is disgusting. Kids aren’t bank accounts or time cards. You’re not happy because you get some ROI out of your “hard work”.

      • MoonChild@lemmy.caM
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        2 months ago

        No one should have kids expecting them to thank you for being born but she seems to expect them to thank her at every turn. She really doesn’t seem to like anything to do with the responsibilities of parenthood and I can’t, for the life of me, figure out why she has 4 of them.

    • Poofluencers@lemmy.ca
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      2 months ago

      I can’t imagine that Sarah hasn’t harmed her children and their ability to have safe or healthy relationships. I hope M gets her distance and gets to know herself but she probably will come home either for fear of missing out, not feeling special to her mom or because Sarah somehow plays the part of saviour and the one who needs to be rescued all at the same time.